Posts by Holly Spillers

Too many people get hung up on this word “balance” thinking they need to divide time between home and work equally. Not only does that sound impossible, it doesn’t even sound fun. Instead, let’s find your perfect life mix. Discover what’s important to you to live your ideal life and forget about the pressure to have it look like everyone else’s.

The Lost Art of The Thank You Note

My kindergarten son and I have attended three classmate’s birthday parties over the course of the past four months. We have yet to receive one thank you note. What’s up with that?

I have two sons – ages three and six. We have birthday parties every year for each of them and EVERY year, we send thank you notes. My general rule is to get them out within 10 days of the party. It’s just plain courteous. I hate to think, that in this day and age of “facewittertextmail” that we’re losing sight of the importance of a simple, hand written note. Don’t tell me you don’t have time. You had time to plan the party. You have time to thank people for coming.

Please join me in my effort to save the thank you note. Write a note today!


Happiness is a Choice. Choose Wisely.

I just had an awesome experience at McDonald’s (don’t judge me) that made me smile and realize that I have NO earthly reason NOT to be happy. Ever!

As I drove through to pick up my order, the young woman in the window greeted me, “Hello Miss Diet Coke. You have a blessed day and come back and see us.” She was so cheerful and genuinely happy in that moment, that I had no choice but to feel blessed.

I can say with almost 100% certainty, that my life, for the most part, is easier than hers. I have a good job, home, husband, kids, blah, blah, blah. Yet, this girl, was very happy doing what she was doing, at that particular moment. The impact her greeting had on me, lasted the rest of the day! Imagine how that kind of happiness could spread if we all practiced it just a little bit more than we do.

Lesson learned – take time to live in the moment and be happy now!

Thank you Miss McDonald’s. You have a blessed day too!

There Will Never Be Enough Time

Accept it. Get over it. There will never be enough time in your day to accomplish everything you want to do. However, there are a few things you can do, to free up some of the limited time you do have, in order to get more done.

1. Identify and eliminate time wasters.

For me, that’s the Internet.  I sit at a desk most of the day and a lot of what I do is Internet based. Yahoo! used to be my home page, and what’s on Yahoo? Primarily terrible news from around the world and celebrity gossip. I would turn on my browser to do something specific, and get lost in garbage, wasting valuable time. Now, my home page is Google. It was hard to get used to, but I’m no longer distracted by a bunch of useless information and I go straight to where I need to go.

What is your biggest time waster? Identify it and take steps to eliminate it.

2. Schedule your priorities.

Yes, this is simple. And yes, I shouldn’t have to tell you this. But not everyone does it! Do you schedule your workouts? What about scheduling time to read two chapters of a book? 15 minutes to practice the piano? 30 minutes to play with your kids? You have to schedule time in your life to get what’s important to you done.

3. Ask for help

This is a big one for me. I never ask for help. How many people do? Just last Friday I was trying to figure out how I was going to make it to my 5:00 a.m. workout, then my 6:00 a.m. women’s bible study, and then get myself and my kids ready to leave the house by 8:00 a.m. I figured one of those things was not going to happen. As I was telling my husband about my dilemma, he said, “Why don’t I get the kids ready? Friday can be the day I get the kids ready.” Ah ha moment! And, it’s not like he doesn’t always help, it’s just that I run around like a crazy person trying to do it all by myself.  Ask the people in your life to help you. They will.

There you go. Three simple things you can do today, to re-adjust the time you’ve been given and get more of what’s important to you done!